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A few reasons to smile. I am already in my Friday, meaning a nice weekend (and I am not going to tell you where, well, just yet) is just one night away; days at work were long and rather intense, but good; badminton tonight was rather brutal, but the game was a fantastic workout; your questions are making me smile. So, here it is: first batch of answers.

But before I go on: March and "all you can ask" is still available here; all laid out in the open. Go ahead.

Ok, first a smile...


And then answers, sorted by question order of arrival.

eloquentwthrage : In the grand scale between Total Top and Complete Bottom, where would you place yourself (not referring to gender roles or masc/femme stereotypes)?

In the grand scale... ok, let me put it this way. I'd say I am more inclined towards the top end, although - if stars are aligned the way they should be - a hot bottoming is a rocking event. Speaking of anal sex; I always saw that as a rather, well, very intimate part of my sexual behaviour, so I tend to "save" the bottom part, mostly, for my partner. But never say never. Masc/femme stereotypes... I've been messing around with some very manly men, often married, who just wanted to get fucked. The reasoning behind it: At home I have to fuck, now you will.

I'd say... Take it like a man and give it like one as well.

coffeeguy777 : Where were u born & what countries have you lived in?

Yes, this one is easy. Slovenia. That's it.

jawnbc : How many languages do you speak fluently? How many can you get by in?

Apart from obvious Slovenian, I'd say I can do well with English, Croatian/Serbian and German. My Italian is getting better, hopefully. If I really concentrate, I can read Dutch and get the basic outline of spoken/written French if it's not overly complicated.

sparkytwmonkey : What scares you?

Animals and such in general don't scare me. But when I go get scared? I do not enjoy jumping off the boat (but I still do it) on the open sea, cause I am not sure what's hiding below me. And I do not enjoy walking/skiing on edges of some precipice like rocks. But I still do it. These are two things I can think of now that can make me feel unpleasant.

pklexton : Why "paterson"?

How it all began... There were four of us: my brother, myself and neighbour's two girls, each of them a year older than my bro and myself. We spent most of our free time together, playing all sorts of games, from "doctors" to "school", from "cowboys and indians" to "spacegames", from "dolls" to "cars"... quite a complex childhood, isn't it? Enter Blake's Seven, one of the classical sci-fi series of the seventies. With four main characters in it. And me being the youngest of the bunch got to "play" the role of Cally... figures, doesn't it. LOL
Anyway... I had a name and a proper person needs a last name, too. Enter Bernardette Peters in who knows what movie. I only recall the fact I liked it and snatched her last name. It did not sound very European back then so I changed it to "paterson". And that name just got stuck to me ever since. I have used it over and over again and I still do. It's been around for so long, it's practically an essential part of me. So, it's not about some artist or some city, it's an original construction made by someone, who - at the time he "constructed" it - didn't even have a clue about all that.

dan4behr : Why a Clio?

Cause I generally liked its clean design, cause it's rather suitable for European environment, cause nor Iggy nor me needs something flashy and it's big enough for the two of us and it takes us anywhere we want to drive to.

ubermunkey : If we were naked, you and I, and I was half in and half out of you, and I leaned in and whispered into your ear, would you want to hear words, or a low growl?

Words, my dear C, words. To feel you even more.

boobooirl : Where do you get your energy from? If you could have one special talent, what would it be?

Energy... Hmm I'd say it comes from my environment, from people around me, from my eternal and endless joy of living. Special talent? I'd love to be able to travel in time. Not to correct my own mistakes (have I ever made any??? LOL), but to see how it all began.

maxauburn : What planet in our solar system would you most want to visit, and why?

Mars. Because of the promises it brings.

blt4success66 : What is the location of the most public place you've been naked? If you have had sex in a public place, where was it?

Apart from making it out in bar for nearly everybody to see... I'd say a little church on a hill just outside Ljubljana. Nice memories..........

wrascalism : If you could own one vintage car, what would it be? Why?

Hummm.... this one got me thinking and I'd decided I'd take 1954 Mercedes 300 SL. Why? It's a miracle of design, it was a technical wonder when it appeared, i love it's European esprit, it's a car and it still speaks of all sorts of excellence one can think of when it comes to cars. Yes, I am not a fan of silver paint, but it would definitely have to be metallic silver. With bright red interior. Car Porn, definitely.


So, this is it for now. :)



( 22 comments — Leave a comment )
Mar. 4th, 2011 02:30 am (UTC)
That is quite the variety of questions you got there. And very interesting answers :)

I look forward to reading more!
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:25 pm (UTC)
Thanks. :) I might provide a few more.
Mar. 4th, 2011 03:04 am (UTC)
LOL...didn't you do a "Water on M'arse" series a few years ago?
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:25 pm (UTC)
Oh, I did. I might even look for it. :)
Mar. 4th, 2011 03:40 am (UTC)
Thanks for the response. Glad I got my point across in the question, that I wasn't asking "Who's the husband and who's the wife?" since that's SO not what topping or bottoming is about.
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:26 pm (UTC)
No, the whole top/bottom thingie is totally different. :)
Mar. 4th, 2011 07:26 am (UTC)
I have a Clio too.
It's ideal if you live in a city...

His name is Jean-Luc :-)
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:26 pm (UTC)
Ours is called The Little Mouse.
Mar. 4th, 2011 01:41 pm (UTC)
The way your teeth shine in this photo, it could be a toothpaste advertisement. ;)

And oh, the tings one learns on LJ!
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:27 pm (UTC)
Such as? :)
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:38 pm (UTC)
The details of other people's sexual preferences, for example. Not that LJ is the only place that I can learn such things. ;)

Seriously, what a varied assortment of questions and answers! (and only 3 ot of 11 are about sex! :P)

Mar. 8th, 2011 11:42 pm (UTC)
Well, sex is like food. Some like this, some like that. :)

Yes, I was "satisfied" with the crop.
Mar. 4th, 2011 01:43 pm (UTC)
Admittedly I'm always a sucker for that smile of yours :)
Have a great weekend whatever (or wherever) you have planned :)
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:28 pm (UTC)
Ah bella Italia again... :)
Mar. 4th, 2011 04:34 pm (UTC)
such great questions and answers, I'm always sucky at that sort of thing...

and oooooooooh lordy, ubermonkey's question has me SO hot and bothered thinking of the two of you right now.
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:43 pm (UTC)
Ah, you are not.

Yes, Connor has his ways....... :)
Mar. 4th, 2011 04:43 pm (UTC)
Thanks for the boner, ubermunkey
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:43 pm (UTC)
And mine as well. :)
Mar. 4th, 2011 08:55 pm (UTC)
Thanks for taking the time to answer my question.

My long term best friend(BFF?)'s last name is Patterson (with two t's). So I have a good feeling about the name too.

Mar. 8th, 2011 11:43 pm (UTC)
So it *is* a good name. :)
Mar. 5th, 2011 09:24 pm (UTC)
I do not enjoy jumping off the boat (but I still do it) on the open sea, cause I am not sure what's hiding below me

Dude. I love the water. Love, love, love. I am happiest in, on or near the ocean. I could stay in the water all day long.

That being said, anything over my head scares me. As soon as I cannot touch/see the bottom, I start to freak out. Sea creatures? Are creepy. Some of them are really pretty, but the ones that live in the deep are seriously creepy creatures. Jellyfish make me cry.
Mar. 8th, 2011 11:45 pm (UTC)
Well... jellyfish can make most anyone cry. :)
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